1. They decide what they want their photo to “say”. Before outfits or hair, they answer:
- Do I want to look approachable, authoritative, creative, or polished?
- Where will this photo live (Personal Social Networking, LinkedIn, Website, Speaking, etc.)?
2. They plan outfits ahead of time (not the night before)
- Try on 2–3 options in advance
- Make sure everything fits well sitting and standing
- Snap quick mirror photos to compare
3. They keep it simple
The goal is YOU to stand out—not the outfit
- Solid Colors, Minimal patterns:
- Focus on fit and fabric that flatters
- Choose a neckline that suits you
- Buttons, pockets and layering thin outer layers add interest
- Neutral or Tones that flatter your skin
- 2-3 neutrals (Grey, White, Beige, Brown, Black, Navy, Denim, Khaki)
- OR 2 neutrals + 1 color
- Fabric that has structure or texture:
- crisp cotton, weighted fabrics that create shape or light-weight materials that light reflects like silk or linen
4. They bring options—but not too many
Best practice:
- 2–3 outfits max
- Slight variations (jacket on/off, different top)
5. They prep their clothes properly
- Steam or iron everything
- Check for lint, wrinkles, pet hair
- Bring clothes on hangers (not folded in a bag)
6. They stick with what they know works
They choose styles that hide insecurity areas and flatter their best features. A headshot should look like your best real self, not a different person.
They don’t:
- Try a brand-new hairstyle
- Experiment with bold makeup they’ve never worn
- Wear something totally outside their norm
7. They practice expressions
It helps to know what expressions you like or don’t like in your photos. If don’t know yet, you can start now:
- Find old photos of yourself (Identify what you like or dislike).
- Practice your expressions beforehand in selfies or the mirror (see if you can make an expression you like on-command).
8. They show up slightly early and unhurried
- Arrive 5–10 minutes early
- *Rushed energy can show up in photos, give yourself time!
9. They understand a portrait session is a partnership, not a passive activity
My best clients trust my process, but they also understand portraiture is the art of capturing someone’s personality and expressions. In order to get good expressions, they need to be willing to open up and give them. We work through nervousness and going blank; which are normal and expected. I will coach you.
It helps if they:
- Are open to direction and guidance
- Will try a movement if they look/feel “stiff”
- Know their preferred expression(s) in advance
- Don’t hold back if they have an idea or want to improvise
10. They focus on connection, not perfection
The best photos happen when clients engage and connect with the camera, while also taking direction. Most people don’t naturally do this, so I will use direct communication to coach you. I promise I will not be vague and leave you guessing what to do. People who work behind a camera don’t keep their expression frozen they:
- Let their expression change instead of holding a smile
Remember, Our Clients, Family & Friends respond to real, not perfect!


































